As I stated our name is a symbol which marks and distinguishes us from birth, but from the beginning the name was given to us is never used or do not like, there is a reason.
The name must be suited to the personality of the child and not the other way. I think it's funny, though sometimes difficult for new parents wanting at all costs to find a name for the next baby. Of course let's also a list of preferred names, but not obstinately to a specific name, because it is almost certain that it will change a thousand times.
In fact, it's probably because you've noticed yourself, when the mother is in her arms the infant, that's the appropriate name comes spontaneously from his lips.
So if a child has been registered under the name of Dante (because of an uncle who died) and then for life Marino is called or if a child is known as Carmela's maternal grandmother, but then did not like anyone and everyone the call and continue to call Antonella, then it is perhaps appropriate to define and possibly search for the meaning of this (second) name.
The name identifies you (the one with which you are called, what if someone screams from far away you turn to look at the person calling you, it's really yours) only if it is used every day.
The fact that the name may please or not the recipient of the same name that is a different matter, may be a temporary crisis (usually typical of adolescence) in which we find ourselves more in their own name for a fashion and uniformity with their peers, not to a real reason. But we as a people we are and it is unique, hence the alignment is not part of our true destiny .... and then even in our name. In fact there are others, usually our parents, we must give a name, not ourselves. They see in us something with the look of love, we are Monica, Jose and Roberto. If the name is not chosen or for love (but out of duty), then it can happen that is not the appropriate name the person to whom it is from.
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